HAPPY VALENTINE

Happy VALENTINE, as cliche as it may sound, that greeting has lost its meaning and value, maybe because it is associated with a lot of intangible concepts and tangible benefits, that are hard to relate with. Vincent Van Goh will always say love is something eternal, it may change but the essence remains constant. There is no way we will talk about valentine, without talking about love. I and my friend were discussing and he told me, he wanted to get a teddy bear for his girlfriend, in a bid to ask her can I be your val or he could probably send her a cake saying can I pamper you on the 14th of February.

 All these moves are just to show how much we feel for someone, especially on the day of valentine. I also have a friend that believes valentine is a day for side chicks, since everyday should be for your spouse, so you could run away on the 14th, switch off your phone and wait till 15th when the whole euphoria dies down, you initiate the call, bring along plenty chocolates and make up sex would do the magic ( crazy i guess).

Another of my friend believes that his ideal valentine should be a girl presenting him with a blackberry Z10, since before now it has always been the guy doing the stuffs and the girl just receives (loll). If you must know approximately 150millions of valentine card exchange hand, making valentine the second most popular card-sending holiday after Christmas holiday. In Benin city for example places like kaydies, omega and probably hexagon would be filled with teenagers and youths who do not have an idea what love is all about.

 However this kind magnitude exchange of gifts is enormous and still relationship keeps breaking up, hatred looms and spouses throw their vows out the window. What is the matter?  If we must have an ideal valentine's day, then we must put somethings into consideration, we must lean back and understand what love really is, and its value in our relationship.

Honestly on this note i will like to say women love gifts, present[s] and plenty beautiful things, but those little things matter in spicing up your relationship, even in plenty giving, women can still detect when you are very needy and it is a turn off for them. Give the gifts today and try as much as possible to make them want you.

I have learnt my lesson a long time ago that women should be treated as special as they are, even when sometimes they could actually be lesser, than what they pose to be. Enjoy your valentine and please share with me or comment about your awesome valentine experience. Gracias.